Words to Live By

~ by Charlotte

The kindest word in all the world is the unkind word unsaid. -Anonymous

I appreciate people who are thoughtful in their words; those who wouldn’t let unkind word slip through their tongues. I appreciate more those who have to gift of saying the right words – words that matter, words that help, uplifting words without being preachy, at exactly the right moment.

Words unsaid burns in the heart. Words unheard scars the soul. -Anonymous

I think it’s easier to shut up when there’s nothing good to say. The struggle has always been – saying what we mean in a manner that conveys our good intentions, especially when a criticism is involved; or when saying what we mean means a little bit of self exposure is needed or if it means risking self preservation or appearing silly and becoming vulnerable.

10 Comments to 'Words to Live By'

  • Excellent quote and post. All so very true. Something I’ve been trying to instill in my boy since he was young and I think he’s getting it. Words can lift up or tear down, heal or hurt – it is so important to know when to hold them back and when to let them go.

    REPLY Sun, 7 Feb 2010
  • I think it is always so important to speak kindly! It makes life better : ). For the speaker, and the one they are speaking to!

    REPLY Sun, 7 Feb 2010
  • I have been told so many times, “when in doubt shut up”

    REPLY Sun, 7 Feb 2010
  • Bev

    I say repeatedly to my class -”If you have nothing good to say, say nothing!”
    Great quotes

    REPLY Sun, 7 Feb 2010
  • Great quotes. Definitely words to live by.

    REPLY Sun, 7 Feb 2010
  • And what’s interesting is, that on the Internet and in emails, it’s even easier to slip and say something harsh or mean without thinking. So you need to be extra careful.

    REPLY Sun, 7 Feb 2010
  • These are great quotes and great ways to explore them. You’re so right, something said the right way at the right time can have so much impact. What would the world look like if we all used filters on our mouths and thought about what we were going to say before we said it…. a completely different place I think. :)

    REPLY Mon, 8 Feb 2010
  • As Bambi’s mother said in the movie…
    “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all!”

    Great quotes. Have a great day.

    REPLY Mon, 8 Feb 2010
  • So true – so important – what great words to live by. I know I am trying to become the person who can say the words people need to hear!

    REPLY Mon, 8 Feb 2010
  • I struggle at this department but I am not giving up.

    REPLY Sat, 13 Feb 2010

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