Moments

~ by Charlotte

The butterfly counts not months but moments, and has time enough. -Rabindranath Tagore

Did you know? An adult butterfly probably has an average life-span of approximately one month. In the wild, most butterflies lives are shorter than this because of the dangers provided by predators, disease, and large objects, such as automobiles. The smallest butterflies may live only a week or so, while a few butterflies, such as Monarchs, Mourning Cloaks and tropical heliconians, can live up to nine months. Source: North American Butterfly Association

I don’t want a butterfly’s lifespan – to live for just weeks or months, but I sure want my life be filled with great moments.

If we take care of the moments, the years will take care of themselves. – Maria Edgeworth

What is it about birthdays that make me look back to my life and somehow measure myself? I’m turning a year older in two days. I have to admit that it’s quite depressing since I don’t feel my age and yet more and more evidence of age are turning up. I’ve started counting gray hairs and wrinkles a few years back, and I wonder what more will I be seeing next. And the year added to my age feels like another year wasted on not accomplishing anything.

But over and over, I have to remind myself that my life should not be about my age, the time or years I’ve existed in this world. Life is about the more important aspects in life – happiness, meaning, and the friendship and love that we shared and received. These aspects make us sigh, smile and laugh, and swells our hearts. These more important aspects in life make up great experiences and great moments.

And sometimes, that moment of being satisfied with what we have is a great moment enough.

Life is not measured by every breath we take, but by every moment that takes our breath away. -Anonymous

5 Comments to 'Moments'

  • Very thought provoking! :)

    REPLY Sun, 28 Feb 2010
  • I find it hard getting older myself. I’m a Peter Pan through and through. Its good to remember that everyday is a blessing, but today is another day to do something we’ve never done or to become someone better than we’ve never been.

    JM

    REPLY Sun, 28 Feb 2010
  • I hope you’ll have a happy birthday ‘Te Charlotte. :) ‘Te Jessica reminded me in her blog post.

    I have to agree, life is about happiness and other important stuff we mostly just take for granted.

    REPLY Mon, 1 Mar 2010
  • Have a happy birthday soon charm!

    I always get reminded of you whenever I run across the last line of this entry.

    REPLY Mon, 1 Mar 2010
  • Oh this is so good. All those special moments are what make us who we are. It’s always a good reminder for us to cherish all the little moments we have :)

    REPLY Mon, 1 Mar 2010

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